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Tuesday, May 09, 2006

Some 'Girls'...

One of my favorite shows to watch on TV (actually I have to record it and watch it later so technically I'm watching a video, but whatever) is Gilmore Girls. I admit that I love being involved in other people's lives... especially lives that aren't real. In fact, I love it so much that i actually check up on story lines and watch preview clips on websites. So in preparation for tonights season finale, I checked up on the Girls' site and found an interview with the guy who plays Rory's boyfriend, Logan Huntsberger. In it the interviewer asked him: Rory always seems to be attracted to bad boys. Why do you think that is? And his answer was absolutely profound: It's a side of her that she can express through a relationship. Often times we find in life that we're intrigues by those people who have qualities that aren't like our own. Amen to that, Logan... er, I mean Matt.

Honestly, I've found myself asking that question a lot lately. Last Wednesday after breifly hearing from David about him voluntarily dropping out of the pararescue program (that's another blog for later) I called my mom and asked, "Why do I attract these guys who have no idea what they want to do with their lives?!" Really it's been a point of frustration for me since the first time I ever seriously dated anyone (for those of you who know me, you know who I'm talking about) And with the exception of one guy, the others I've dated have been in this limbo regarding what they've wanted to do with their lives. BUT now with the information provided through Gilmore Girls I understand why I attract these guys-- I'm intrigued by people who have qualities that aren't like mine! I've wanted to be a DCE since I was a sophomore in high school and before that I never waiverd in my dream to be an architect (honestly I still toy around with that one too) so I guess the idea of being completely clueless captivates me. Interesting, huh?

And people say TV isn't educational.

2 comments:

hannah said...

The idea that we can "fix" someone is the J part of us crying out for a project! :)

Its fascinating the boys we like and why we like them. If you look back at my own "dating" repertroire(sp)? you'll find mine just as sketchy as yours.

Relational fools :)

lubke-moss said...

Profound. Inlightening. TV can be educational, you just have to dig deep. Julianna always finds some life altering info within her shows that I would have NEVER picked up on. She's a nut, but I love her anyway!